So everyone at work (well not everyone, but about 8 people) know about The Boy and ask for regular updates, I ended up telling the deputy head teacher cos, well I cant quite remember, but the first thing she asked me was ‘is it what you want?’ i explained that we decided we wanted to marry each other ourselves and that made her smile. She then asked when the wedding was, i told her the elders sort that out, she then said ‘you always make me laugh, its so funny, or not funny, but odd, how you are so independent, so strong willed yet when it comes to your family you are quite traditional.’ Hmmm
I then decided it was important to tell the head teacher as I dont like being talked about and they all know that I will be leaving in the near future, inshAllah. So I told her, she asked ‘Are you pleased?’ Now that made me think WhatTheFlips!
I wonder if they thought that it was an ‘arranged marriage’ cos im brown.
Perhaps I should have started with, I have a boyfriend and I am getting married to him.
He’s not my boyfriend. He’s The Boy who is going to be my husband, inshAllah soon!
Anyway. K and V kept giggling at me during well-being training, I wanted to tell them to jog on, but was compelled to blush instead. Yes, I know blush. URGH.